well, here is an update on my GF.
so, we have been going out for close to 2 months, and, nothing is going wrong (knock on wood) we were alone for the FIRST time in the two months. (i mean, w/o my friends tagging along.) and we went to the movies, and saw the lake house, and, it was great. I reccomend it BTW. so, i finnaly kissed her, for the first time......lol, i wish i wasn't so shy, maybe it would be going a little bit better. but, we are happy, and, are keeping it lively.
she is confusing me however.......she says she is moving, and, will be gon in the middle of july, but, she still has a job, and, she can't leave it, unless she gives a month notice, and, she also, can't leave the ball roomdancing classes because, her dad would flip out, he is a controll freak. (she has to give him 3/4 of her paycheck! and so does her mother!!, i was like, wtf, that is yours, you are the one working, it's not your problem that he is moving throught out the whole U.S.A for a $15 doller an hour job!)
haha, so, thats the scoop on my weird life. :D i duno if this was just genneral, random talk, or a rant, so, i decided to put it here......tell me if i didn't put it in the correct place.
Its confusing me too. If she knows she is moving then why hasnt she given notice at work? How is she going to do the same ballroom dancing classes as now is she moves?
I'm not saying much on her father getting most of her paycheck other than it is wrong.
Is her family Mormon? It could be part of "tithing", each family is expected to give a percentage of their income to the church, and depending on the sect family members are expected to give a percentage of their income to the head of the household, or her dad might just be an ass, lol.
It is good that you are getting to spend time with her before she moves.
As for her job and giving notice, that's her problem, and when she goes for another job they will contact the place she left without giving proper notice and will be told about it.
no, they are christian, and, lol, it is her problem, not mind, and i don't really worry about it, but, lol, it was just a little confusing. :D
I hope everything runs smoothly for you. Its good that your not stressing to the point where you want to kill yourself like most weird ppl do when relationships go rocky. Just keep in mind your still really young so there will be other opportunities to be happy. Just take each day how it comes, u seem to be holding it great so far :)